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Funerals in the Healing Process

should a person say "no funerals" When someone we love dies, everything changes. Grief arrives uninvited, often overwhelming and unpredictable. During such a difficult time, the question often comes up: “Do we really need to have a funeral?” Sometimes, people leave behind wishes for funerals, thinking they’re saving their loved ones from a burden. But what many don’t realize is that a funeral is not just a tradition—it’s an essential part of the healing process for those left behind. Continue reading Funerals in the Healing Process

Springtime Funerals

As spring arrives, bringing with it vibrant blooms and renewed life, it offers a unique opportunity to celebrate and honor those we have lost. The season’s natural beauty can provide comfort and healing for those grieving the death of a loved one, offering a peaceful reminder of the cycles of life. At Foothill Funeral, we recognize that the passing of a loved one, whether through natural causes, illness, or even suicide, is never easy. For springtime funerals, we encourage families to embrace nature as part of the memorial process—allowing it to bring solace and help keep the memory of the departed alive. Continue reading Springtime Funerals

Say the Right Thing at a Funeral

Don’t Stick Your Foot in Your Mouth at a Memorial

At Foothill Funeral, we understand that finding the right words to say at a funeral can be challenging. As your trusted funeral home in Glendora, we’re here to offer guidance on how to express your condolences and support those who are grieving. In this article, we’ll share our insights on communicating with empathy and respect during these difficult times so that you will know how to say the right thing at a funeral. Continue reading Say the Right Thing at a Funeral

Exercise & Grief

Finding Healing Through Physical Activity

When experiencing the loss of a loved one, the overwhelming emotions that accompany grief can feel impossible to navigate. The journey through bereavement is deeply personal, yet there are evidence-based approaches that can provide support during this difficult time. One powerful but often overlooked resource is physical activity. The relationship between exercise and grief has gained increasing attention from researchers and mental health professionals who recognize its potential to aid in emotional healing. Continue reading Exercise & Grief

Cremation Memorials

Cremation Memorial Service Ideas

When the death of a loved one occurs, families face many decisions during an emotionally challenging time. For those who choose cremation, planning a meaningful memorial service offers an opportunity to honor and celebrate a unique life with cremation memorials. As cremation rates continue to rise in California, more families are seeking creative ways to commemorate their loved ones after cremation. Continue reading Cremation Memorials

Dealing with Grief: A Journey Through Loss and Healing

Financial crisis and Business failure. Failure for businessman lost everything dealing with grief Grief is a universal experience, yet it’s one of the most personal and challenging journeys we face in life. As funeral directors at Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we have witnessed countless individuals navigate the complex emotions that come with losing a loved one. Today, we would like to share some personal experiences and insights on dealing with grief, in hopes that it might offer comfort and guidance to those who are struggling with loss. Continue reading Dealing with Grief: A Journey Through Loss and Healing

Cross Cultural Funeral Traditions

A Global Perspective on Mourning Traditions: How Various People Honor the Dead

At Foothill Funeral, we understand that death is a universal experience, but the ways in which we mourn and honor our loved ones can vary greatly across cultures. As your trusted funeral home in Glendora, we believe in providing not just services, but also education and understanding about the diverse practices surrounding death and dying. In this post, we’ll explore how different nationalities grieve and memorialize their deceased, with a special focus on Irish traditions in honor of St. Patrick’s Day. Continue reading Cross Cultural Funeral Traditions

Casket Matters

Although most people these days choose cremation, some continue to prefer burial. In such cases, when faced with the loss of a loved one, choosing the right casket can be an overwhelming task. At Foothill Funeral, our goal is to provide you with the information and support you need during this difficult time. In this guide, we’ll explore the various casket options available, helping you make an informed decision that honors your loved one’s memory and fits your budget. Continue reading Casket Matters

Art Therapy in Grief Recovery

The Healing Power of Creativity with Art Therapy

When we experience the loss of a loved one, the journey through grief can feel overwhelming and isolating. At Foothill Funeral, we understand that each person’s path to healing is unique. That’s why we’re excited to explore a powerful tool that has been helping many individuals navigate the complexities of grief: art therapy.

Art therapy isn’t about creating masterpieces; it’s about expressing emotions, processing loss, and finding comfort through creativity. In this blog post, we’ll delve into how various forms of artistic expression can aid in grief recovery, providing insights and practical ways to incorporate art therapy into your healing journey. Continue reading Art Therapy in Grief Recovery

Valentine’s Day Grief

As February 14th approaches, many people look forward to celebrating love and companionship. However, for those who have experienced the death of a loved one, Valentine’s Day can bring a complex mix of emotions. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, we understand Valentine’s Day Grief. This time of year can intensify feelings of loss, making it crucial to address the unique challenges faced by those mourning during a season traditionally focused on togetherness. Continue reading Valentine’s Day Grief

Community Grief

With the recent Southern California fires as well as the plane/helicopter crash in DC., community grief is a thing. In the heart of the San Gabriel Valley, Glendora stands as a testament to the strength found in community bonds. When loss touches one of us, it resonates through our close-knit neighborhoods, reminding us of the profound connections we share. At Foothill Funeral & Cremation Service, we’ve witnessed firsthand how our community comes together to support one another. This is especially true during life’s most challenging moments. Continue reading Community Grief

What Happens When You Die?

Exploring Theories of What Happens After You Die: Cultural, Spiritual, and Scientific PerspectivesIn Hinduism, death is seen as a transition rather than an end. The belief in reincarnation suggests that the soul (atman) is reborn into a new body after death. This cycle of rebirth, known as samsara, continues until the soul achieves moksha, or liberation from the cycle of rebirth.

Native American Traditions

Many Native American tribes view death as a journey to another realm. The specific beliefs vary among tribes, but often include the idea of a spirit world where ancestors reside. Funeral practices may involve rituals to help guide the spirit to this new realm.

Spiritual and Religious Perspectives When You Die

Major world religions offer various explanations for what happens after we die, providing comfort and guidance to their followers.

Christianity

Christian beliefs about the afterlife generally include the concepts of heaven and hell. Many Christians believe that upon death, the soul is judged and either ascends to heaven or descends to hell. Others believe that belief and trust in Jesus Christ assures they will spend eternity in heaven with Him. Some denominations also believe in purgatory, a place of temporary punishment and purification before entering heaven.

Islam

In Islamic tradition, death is seen as a return to Allah (God). Muslims believe in a Day of Judgment, where individuals are held accountable for their actions in life. The righteous are rewarded with paradise (Jannah), while the unrighteous face punishment in hell (Jahannam).

Buddhism

Buddhist beliefs about death and the afterlife vary among different schools of thought. Generally, Buddhists believe in the concept of rebirth, like reincarnation in Hinduism. However, the goal in Buddhism is to break free from the cycle of rebirth and achieve Nirvana, a state of liberation from suffering.

Scientific Perspectives on Death

While science cannot definitively answer what happens to consciousness after death, it provides valuable insights into the physical processes of dying and explores potential explanations for near-death experiences.

The Physical Process of Dying

From a medical perspective, death occurs when the heart stops beating, and the brain ceases to function. However, recent research suggests that the process of dying may be more gradual than previously thought. Studies have shown that some brain activity may continue for a short time after clinical death, raising questions about the exact moment of transition.

Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) When You Die

Near-death experiences have been reported by individuals who have come close to dying or have been resuscitated after clinical death. Common elements of NDEs include:

A sense of peace and well-being
Out-of-body experiences
Encountering a bright light or tunnel
Meeting deceased loved ones or spiritual figures
Life review

While some researchers attribute NDEs to physiological processes in the dying brain, others argue that these experiences suggest the possibility of consciousness existing beyond the physical body.

When You Die, Do Quantum Theory and Consciousness Factor In?

Some scientists and philosophers have turned to quantum theory to explore the nature of consciousness and its potential continuation after death. The idea of quantum consciousness suggests that our minds may be connected to a fundamental aspect of the universe, potentially allowing for some form of continuation after physical death. However, these theories remain highly speculative and are not widely accepted in the scientific community.

Coping with the Unknown After You Die

As a funeral home in Glendora, we at Foothill Funeral & Cremation Service understand that contemplating what happens after death can be both fascinating and unsettling. While we may not have definitive answers, exploring these various perspectives can help us find meaning and comfort in the face of loss.

It’s important to remember that grief is a deeply personal experience, and there’s no right or wrong way to approach the question of what happens after we die. Some find solace in religious or spiritual beliefs, while others find comfort in scientific explanations or the legacy left behind by their loved ones.

As funeral directors, we’ve witnessed how different beliefs and perspectives on death can influence the grieving process and funeral arrangements. Whether a family chooses a traditional burial or opts for cremation, these decisions often reflect their beliefs about what happens after death.

For those struggling with thoughts of death or experiencing suicidal ideation, it’s crucial to seek help. If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide, please reach out to a mental health professional or call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255.

The question of what happens when we die remains one of life’s great mysteries. From ancient cultural beliefs to modern scientific theories, humanity continues to grapple with this profound question. While we may not have definitive answers, exploring these diverse perspectives can enrich our understanding of life, death, and the human experience.

At Foothill Funeral & Cremation Service, we’re committed to supporting families in Glendora and the surrounding areas as they navigate the challenging journey of loss. We believe that by openly discussing death and exploring various beliefs about what happens after we die, we can foster a healthier relationship with mortality and find greater meaning in life.

About Foothill Funeral &Cremation in Glendora, California

Funeral directing is a unique job. The reason we enjoy it is because we love helping families during their time of need. Drop by our Glendora showroom any time. In Covina, our relationship with Sacred Heart Chapel is the perfect place for mourners to host funerals and memorial services in a grandiose yet intimate setting. We proudly serve the San Gabriel Valley, San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles Basin, Orange County, and the Inland Empire. Working in the mortuary industry since 1996, we have worked hard to build a reputation of quality, sincerity, and trust. Please allow us to help you at your time of need or in the future. Call today (626) 335-0615 or drop by our showroom.

Funeral Traditions

serene funeral service featuring beautifully arranged floral display with vibrant roses and other flowers, symbolizing love and remembrance. At Foothill Funeral, we take pride in serving the diverse community of Glendora, California. Our city’s rich tapestry of cultures brings with it a variety of funeral traditions and customs that reflect the unique heritage of our residents. In this comprehensive guide, we’ll explore some of the most prominent cultural funeral traditions observed in Glendora, offering insights into how different communities honor their loved ones and navigate the grieving process. Continue reading Funeral Traditions

Funeral Technology

Saying goodbye to a loved one is one of life’s most challenging moments. We work hard to provide you with information about emerging trends in our industry. What’s more, we maintain the goal of offering you the most compassionate and personalized funeral technology support possible. Continue reading Funeral Technology

Why Funeral Pre-Planning Your Funeral May Be Your Most Important Resolution

Piggy bank and jar with money on table. Money savings for funeral pre-planning Funeral costs have reached unprecedented levels. The average funeral expense will likely exceed $12,000 by 2025. Most people make New Year’s resolutions about health and finances, but funeral pre-planning could be the most influential decision you make for your family’s future.

Death brings countless decisions and financial burdens to your loved ones. You can protect them from emotional overspending by creating a funeral preplanning checklist now. This preparation ensures your final wishes happen exactly as you imagine them. Modern funeral planning provides flexible solutions that line up with your values and budget, including payment plans and eco-friendly choices. Continue reading Why Funeral Pre-Planning Your Funeral May Be Your Most Important Resolution

Healing Resolutions: How to Approach the New Year Without a Loved One

New Year’s celebrations with their countdown rituals, midnight toasts, and cheerful “Happy New Year” greetings can feel overwhelming after losing a loved one. The festivities that once sparked joy and anticipation might now trigger complex emotions and a deeper sense of loss, particularly as celebrations unfold around you.

Grief doesn’t pause for the calendar and beginning a new year without someone special needs gentle navigation and self-compassion. This piece provides practical ways to acknowledge your feelings and create meaningful traditions that keep your loved one’s memory alive during the holiday season and beyond. Continue reading Healing Resolutions: How to Approach the New Year Without a Loved One

Christmas Funeral: How to Plan & Recover

Elegant Funeral Ceremony in Church with Candlelit Coffin Unique challenges accompany the planning of a funeral during what’s typically a season of celebration. Holiday lights and familiar carols can stir deep emotions when you’re saying goodbye to someone special. Unfortunately, however, sometimes, it is necessary to plan a Christmas funeral.

We’re here to help you navigate this sensitive time. Creating a meaningful farewell amid holiday festivities requires gentle care and understanding. Our compassionate team knows how to blend traditional funeral elements with seasonal touches, helping you honor your loved one in ways that feel right for your family.

Let us guide you through these delicate moments – from selecting memorial flowers that complement holiday decorations to choosing music that speaks to both loss and remembrance. We’ll help you create a tribute that acknowledges both the season’s spirit and your need to say goodbye with grace and dignity. Continue reading Christmas Funeral: How to Plan & Recover

Combat Holiday Grief by Giving Back

Missing someone special during the holiday season creates a unique kind of heartache. Festive lights and cheerful gatherings can sharpen the pain of loss, making each celebration a bittersweet reminder of cherished memories and traditions now changed forever. Some refer to this as holiday grief. In this blog, we discuss how to combat holiday grief. One of our ideas to do so is by giving back.

Life offers gentle possibilities for healing through acts of giving. Your grief journey, though deeply personal, holds the power to touch other lives in meaningful ways. Many find unexpected solace in creating new traditions that honor their loved ones while helping others who walk similar paths. Continue reading Combat Holiday Grief by Giving Back

Holiday Blues: How to Overcome Grief

Holiday seasons filled with twinkling lights and cheerful music can be especially challenging when grief weighs heavily on your heart. People celebrate with full hearts around you, but your heart might ache for someone who isn’t here to share these special moments anymore. Continue reading Holiday Blues: How to Overcome Grief

Thanksgiving After Loss: How to Navigate the Holiday Without Your Loved One

An empty chair at the Thanksgiving table can feel like the heaviest presence in the room. Your first Thanksgiving without a loved one brings a special kind of challenge. Traditional holiday joy now meets the reality of loss. Raw feelings of grief become stronger during Thanksgiving. Familiar traditions feel different in their absence. Many people struggle to find balance between cherished memories and their personal grieving journey during this family-focused holiday. Here are some practical ways to handle this difficult season with gentleness and care. You’ll discover supportive strategies to help you through this Thanksgiving while keeping your loved one’s memory alive – from creating meaningful remembrance rituals to handling family expectations. Continue reading Thanksgiving After Loss: How to Navigate the Holiday Without Your Loved One

Holiday Grief: How to Survive

Grieving the loss of a loved one can make the holiday season feel overwhelming. What once brought joy, and celebration might now trigger painful memories and emotions. Dealing with holiday grief becomes especially challenging at this time of year. Your feelings are valid – there’s no right or wrong way to handle this difficult time. Continue reading Holiday Grief: How to Survive

What to Expect at a Funeral Service

Attending a funeral service can feel overwhelming, especially if you’ve never been to one before. Many people share similar questions about proper etiquette, what happens during the service, and how to show respect for the grieving family. This guide will walk you through what to expect at a funeral service, helping you feel more prepared and confident.

Our comprehensive overview covers everything from arrival procedures to final farewells. You’ll learn about greeting the family, participating in the ceremony, and navigating emotional moments with grace. Whether you’re attending a traditional funeral or a contemporary memorial service, this guide will help you focus on what matters most – honoring the deceased and supporting their loved ones.

Arriving at the Funeral Service

Arriving early at a funeral service helps create a peaceful atmosphere and shows consideration for the grieving family. Here’s what you need to know about making a respectful entrance.

Parking and Entering the Venue at a Funeral Service

Finding the right location shouldn’t add stress to an already emotional day. Most funeral homes offer dedicated parking areas, but it’s helpful to arrive 15-20 minutes early to ensure smooth parking.

Important Funeral Services Parking Considerations:

Look for designated funeral service parking signs
Leave spaces near entrances for elderly or disabled guests
Follow any parking attendant instructions
Park in a way that allows other vehicles to exit easily

Greeting the Family at a Funeral Service

The timing of greeting the family depends on the service format. During a traditional church service, wait until after the ceremony to express your condolences. However, at crematoriums or memorial services, you might have the opportunity to greet the family beforehand.

When approaching the family, keep your interaction brief but meaningful. If you’re not closely acquainted, simply introduce yourself and share your connection to their loved one. A gentle “I’m so sorry for your loss” along with a warm handshake or brief hug (when appropriate) is perfectly acceptable.

Finding Your Funeral Service Seat

The seating arrangement at a funeral service follows certain traditions while remaining flexible. The first few rows are typically reserved for immediate family members, known as the chief mourners. As a guest, you’ll want to be mindful of this arrangement.

For larger venues, try to sit closer to the front rather than clustering at the back. This creates a more intimate atmosphere and shows support for the grieving family. Don’t worry too much about choosing sides – unlike weddings, funeral seating is generally open to all guests regardless of their relationship to the deceased.

Remember that funeral directors or ushers are there to help guide you if you’re unsure about where to sit. Their experience can help make this aspect of the service smoother for everyone involved.

The Funeral Service Ceremony

The funeral ceremony itself follows time-honored traditions while allowing for personal touches that honor the deceased. As we move through this sacred time together, I’ll guide you through what typically occurs during these meaningful proceedings.

Order of Funeral Service

A typical funeral service spans between 30 minutes to an hour, following a carefully planned sequence:

Opening words from the officiant
Selected readings or prayers
Personal tributes and eulogies
Musical selections or hymns
Closing remarks and final blessing
Eulogies and readings

During this touching part of the service, family members or close friends share memories and celebrate the life of their loved one. Readings might include favorite poems, scripture passages, or meaningful quotes. These tributes typically last about 7 minutes each, offering personal glimpses into the deceased’s life and impact on others.

Music and Hymns

Music speaks directly to our hearts when words fall short. Traditional hymns like “Amazing Grace” or “Great Is Thy Faithfulness” often provide comfort during services. Contemporary songs that held special meaning for the deceased may also be included, creating moments of deep reflection and connection.

Participation Expectations

Your presence itself is a form of participation, showing support for the grieving family. When others stand or sit, simply follow their lead. During prayers or moments of silence, quiet reflection is appropriate. If you’re comfortable joining in hymns or responsive readings, you’ll find these noted in the order of service program.

Remember that every funeral service is unique, reflecting the personality and wishes of the deceased and their family. Being present with an open heart and following the gentle guidance of the officiant will help you participate meaningfully in these important funeral proceedings.

Emotional Atmosphere

Navigating the emotional landscape of a funeral service requires gentle understanding and patience. As we gather to honor a life, the atmosphere often carries a profound mix of sorrow and remembrance.

Expressions of Grief at a Funeral Service

During funeral services, emotions flow naturally and uniquely for each person:

Quiet tears and subtle gestures
Shared stories and gentle laughter
Moments of stillness and contemplation
Embraces and supportive touches
Personal reflections and memories
Remember that there’s no “right way” to feel or express emotions during this time. Your presence and authentic response matter more than any prescribed behavior.

Moments of Reflection

Throughout the funeral service, you’ll notice periods of quiet contemplation. These precious moments allow us to process our emotions and remember our connections with the person we’ve lost. Music often accompanies these times, creating a gentle space for personal reflection.

Sometimes, these quiet moments might feel overwhelming. Taking slow, deep breaths can help center your thoughts and manage intense feelings. Many find comfort in focusing on happy memories or meaningful moments shared with the deceased.

Supporting Others

Being present for others during a funeral service means offering simple, heartfelt support. A gentle touch on the shoulder or simply sitting quietly beside someone can provide more comfort than words. When someone shares their grief, our role is primarily to listen with compassion.

If you notice someone struggling emotionally, make eye contact and offer a reassuring smile. Small gestures of kindness – passing tissues, holding a door, or saving a seat – can make a meaningful difference during these tender moments.

Remember that supporting others doesn’t require grand gestures or perfect words. Your authentic presence and willingness to share in both sorrow and cherished memories creates a foundation for collective healing.

Concluding the Funeral Service

As the funeral service draws to a close, we enter a meaningful transition period that honors both the deceased and supports those left behind. This final phase carries its own significance in our journey of remembrance and healing.

Final Respects

The closing moments of a funeral service offer a special opportunity to bid farewell. Many families choose to have a final viewing or moment of reflection. During this time, we might see loved ones placing a flower on the casket or sharing a final private moment. These gestures, while simple, carry profound meaning for everyone present.

Your presence during these final moments matters deeply. Even a gentle nod or quiet moment of reflection contributes to the collective support we offer the bereaved family.

Exiting Procedures

Moving from the service area follows a respectful order. The immediate family exits first, followed by other attendees, usually row by row. If there’s a procession to the cemetery, funeral directors will guide us on proper procedures and traffic regulations.

For those not joining the burial procession, taking a moment to sign the guest register before leaving helps the family acknowledge your attendance. A brief note about your connection to their loved one can provide comfort in the days ahead.

Post Funeral Service Gatherings

After the formal proceedings, many families host a reception where we can share memories in a more relaxed setting. These gatherings serve as a bridge between mourning and the gradual return to daily life:

Family homes
Church halls
Funeral home reception areas
Local restaurants
Community centers

The reception offers a chance to share stories, offer additional support, and even find moments of joy in remembering happy times. These informal gatherings often bring healing through shared experiences and memories.

If you’re attending the reception, remember that your continued presence means everything to the grieving family. Simple gestures like helping with arrangements or just being there to listen make a significant difference. The reception doesn’t need to be elaborate – the true value lies in the comfort of community and shared support.

For those who must leave directly after the service, taking a moment to inform a family member of your departure and expressing when you’ll be in touch shows thoughtfulness during this sensitive time.

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Funeral Flowers: How to Select the Perfect Stems

Choosing the right flowers for a funeral can be a heartfelt way to honor a loved one’s memory. When we’re faced with the loss of someone dear, finding the perfect floral tribute often becomes a priority. Roses, lilies, and other common funeral flowers each carry their own special meaning, helping us express our emotions during this difficult time.

We’ll explore how to select appropriate funeral flowers that truly reflect your relationship with the deceased. From understanding the symbolism behind different blooms to considering popular funeral flower arrangements, we’ll guide you through this delicate process. Our aim is to help you make a thoughtful choice that brings comfort and beauty to the funeral service.

Continue reading Funeral Flowers: How to Select the Perfect Stems

Grief & Regret

Losing a loved one can be one of life’s most challenging experiences, often leaving us grappling with a complex mix of emotions. Among these, regret and grief often intertwine, creating a heavy burden that can be difficult to bear. The death of a loved one not only brings sorrow but can also stir up feelings of remorse over things left unsaid or undone, complicating our journey through loss.

In this blog, we discuss the intricate relationship between regret and grief, and how they impact the healing process. We’ll discuss ways to address unresolved issues, cultivate self-compassion, and transform regret into personal growth. Our goal is to offer supportive insights and practical strategies to help those struggling with complicated grief find a path towards healing and peace after the loss of someone dear. Continue reading Grief & Regret

SIDS Awareness Month

Each year, an estimated 3,500 infants in the United States tragically lose their lives due to sleep-related causes, including the devastating condition known as Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). This perplexing phenomenon, characterized by the unexpected passing of an infant under one year old without any apparent explanation, continues to baffle medical experts and shatter families. Continue reading SIDS Awareness Month

Antidepressant Death Matters

In a world where mental health struggles are increasingly prevalent, the significance of Antidepressant Death Awareness Month cannot be overstated. This crucial observance sheds light on the complex relationship between prescription medications and mental well-being, highlighting both the potential benefits and risks associated with antidepressant use. As we navigate the intricate landscape of depression and anxiety treatments, it’s essential to recognize the double-edged nature of these powerful drugs. Continue reading Antidepressant Death Matters

Embalming

The practice of embalming, or preserving deceased bodies, traces its origins to ancient civilizations. The Egyptians, renowned for their mummification techniques, were pioneers in this field. Their belief in physical resurrection after death fueled the need to meticulously preserve bodies, ensuring the soul could reunite with its corporeal form. Skilled embalmers removed vital organs, treated the cavities with aromatic resins, and wrapped the bodies in linen, creating mummies that endured for millennia. Continue reading Embalming

Grief Exhaustion

The Essence of Grief Exhaustion

Loss is an inescapable part of the human experience. And the emotions that accompany it can be overwhelming. Grief is a complex emotional response that arises not only from the death of a cherished individual but also from various forms of loss, be it a miscarriage, a relationship dissolution, a job transition, or a significant life change. This profound sense of bereavement can manifest in ways that extend far beyond the psychological realm, often manifesting as physical and mental exhaustion. Ultimately, this is a phenomenon known as “grief exhaustion.” Continue reading Grief Exhaustion

Death of a Friend

When your dearest friend departs from this world, an indescribable void emerges—one that words alone cannot fill. The loss leaves you grappling with unanswerable questions and an overwhelming sense of disbelief. Despite your intellectual awareness of life’s impermanence, nothing can truly prepare you for the anguish that accompanies the death of a friend. Continue reading Death of a Friend

Self-Care & Grief

Understanding Grief and Loss

Grief and loss are inevitable parts of the human experience, yet they can be among the most challenging and painful journeys we face. Whether we lose a loved one, a cherished relationship, or a dream we’ve held dear, the emotional turmoil can feel overwhelming. As we navigate this complex terrain, it’s crucial to understand that grief is a natural and deeply personal process, with no one-size-fits-all timeline or roadmap. Continue reading Self-Care & Grief

Death Superstitions

Death is a topic that often makes us uncomfortable, but it’s a natural part of life we all face. Many of us have heard whispers about the bad luck that comes from planning your own funeral. This superstition has deep roots in various cultures, leaving some folks hesitant to make end-of-life arrangements. But is there any truth to this belief, or is it just an old wives’ tale?

In this blog, we explore the origins of funeral planning superstitions and why they have stuck around for so long. We’ll also look at the reasons why planning for your funeral isn’t bad luck at all. Instead, we’ll see how it can bring peace of mind and ease the burden on loved ones. Lastly, we’ll discuss the benefits of being prepared and how it can help you live life to the fullest. Continue reading Death Superstitions

Pallbearers

The Role of Pallbearers in a Funeral Service

As we navigate the complexities of life and the inevitability of death, certain traditions and rituals hold profound significance. One such tradition is the role of pallbearers. These individuals bear the solemn duty of carrying the casket or urn during a funeral or memorial service. Their presence and actions tangibly represent the respect and honor we bestow upon the deceased.

Pallbearers are more than mere carriers. In fact, they serve as symbolic guardians, escorting the departed on their final journey. Their steady steps and reverent demeanor serve as a reminder of the gravity of the occasion, allowing mourners to bid farewell with dignity and grace. In this profound act, pallbearers become a bridge between the living and the deceased, facilitating the transition from this world to the next. Continue reading Pallbearers

Casket Options

When a loved one passes away, the process of planning their final farewell can be emotionally taxing. Amidst the grief and sorrow, one crucial decision that families must make is selecting the appropriate casket for the funeral service. A casket not only serves as the final resting place for the departed but also holds profound emotional and cultural significance. Continue reading Casket Options

Traveling Alone After the Loss of a Loved One

Now that we are in the thick of summer, people turn to summer travel plans. But in the wake of losing someone you love, a trip without them may sound more depressing than staying home. Should you abandon the idea altogether? Or should you plan to take a trip of some kind? In this blog post, we explore the idea of traveling alone. Continue reading Traveling Alone After the Loss of a Loved One

The Evolution of Cremation Memorials

We opened our funeral home in Glendora in 2015. Since that time, we have witnessed a gradual shift away from traditional burial practices towards the embracement of cremation as a viable and often preferred option. This transformation is a practical choice. However, what’s more, it reflects our evolving attitudes towards mortality and the ways in which we honor the departed. Like Los Angelinos, Glendorans have started to embrace cremation. In fact, they see it as environmentally conscious and cost-effective alternative to traditional burials. However, the impact of changing attitudes towards cremation memorials extend far beyond practical considerations.

The change opens new avenues for personalized and meaningful memorialization. As a result, it allows families to celebrate the lives of their loved ones in unique and profound ways. As we delve deeper into this topic, we will explore the various facets of cremation memorials in Glendora, from the changing societal perceptions to the innovative approaches that have emerged in recent years. Continue reading The Evolution of Cremation Memorials

How Funerals Ease Grief

Funerals ease grief. The grieving process is a natural and complex journey that individuals embark upon after experiencing a significant loss. This includes the death of a loved one. It is a multifaceted experience that encompasses a range of emotional, physical, and psychological responses. The grieving process is unique to everyone, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to navigating it. Continue reading How Funerals Ease Grief

Transporting Human Remains

Losing a cherished family member or friend is an emotionally trying experience that demands utmost care and respect. The process of laying a loved one to rest is a profound journey, and it begins with the solemn act of transporting human remains. In Glendora, this delicate task carries immense significance, as it reflects our community’s deep-rooted values of honoring the departed with dignity and reverence. Continue reading Transporting Human Remains

Eco-Friendly Alternatives to Sending Flowers When Someone Dies

In times of grief and mourning, it’s common to send flowers as a gesture of sympathy and support. However, there are many eco-friendly alternatives that can be both meaningful and sustainable. Choosing green options not only honors the memory of the deceased but also respects the environment. Continue reading Eco-Friendly Alternatives to Sending Flowers When Someone Dies

Memorial Day: Honoring Those Who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice

Memorial Day is a significant occasion in the United States. The weekend is dedicated to honoring the men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice in service to their country. So, this day of remembrance provides an opportunity for communities to reflect on the profound loss of life. What’s more, it honors the enduring impact of death, dying, mourning, and grief on families and friends. Finally, as we commemorate this solemn day, let’s discuss its origins and the importance of honoring those who have given their lives for our freedom. Continue reading Memorial Day: Honoring Those Who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice

Dispelling Myths About Death and Dying

Death and dying emerge as natural parts of life. However, few properly understand the real deal. For instance, many rely on what they see in popular culture. Death and dying are often shrouded in misconceptions and misunderstandings. Media portrayals and societal taboos contribute to these myths. As a result, they make it difficult for individuals and families to navigate the end-of-life process. It’s important to separate fact from fiction. Doing so will help you gain a better understanding dispel common myths:

Myths:

Dying at home is no longer common.

Facts:

While many people pass away in hospitals or care facilities, dying at home is still a choice for many individuals. Home hospice care can provide a peaceful and familiar environment for the dying person and their loved ones. This option allows mourners to be surrounded by familiar faces and comforts during their final days.

Myths

Talking about death is morbid and should be avoided.

Facts

Open conversations about death can be beneficial. It allows individuals to express their wishes for end-of-life care and helps loved ones understand and cope with the process.

Speaking at a Funeral: How to Honor Your Loved One

The passing of a loved one is a profound and emotional experience, and speaking at their funeral can be both a privilege and a challenge. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we understand the importance of commemorating the life and legacy of your loved one with heartfelt words and meaningful tributes while speaking at a funeral. Drawing inspiration from expert guidance, we offer valuable tips for delivering a touching and memorable eulogy.

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Is it Okay to Laugh & Smile at a Funeral?

Funerals can be a time of mixed emotions. While they are often associated with grief and sadness, they can also be an opportunity to celebrate and honor the life of a loved one. One question that often arises is whether it’s okay to laugh and smile at a funeral.

The short answer? Yes, it’s okay to laugh and smile at a funeral. Laughter and smiles are natural expressions of human emotion, and they can play an important role in the grieving process. Sharing fond memories, funny stories, and moments of joy can bring comfort and solace to those in mourning, helping to lighten the mood and create a sense of connection and camaraderie among family and friends. Continue reading Is it Okay to Laugh & Smile at a Funeral?

Ash-Scattering Ideas

Foothill Funeral & Cremation Services is honored to assist families in creating meaningful and personalized tributes for their loved ones. As we understand the importance of honoring someone’s life in a way that reflects their unique personality and passions, we offer a variety of options for memorialization, including ash scattering ceremonies. Continue reading Ash-Scattering Ideas

Resurrection Stories

The concept of resurrection holds deep significance for many people, particularly during the Easter season. While the resurrection of Jesus Christ is perhaps the most well-known example of overcoming death, there are countless other stories from various cultures and religions that speak to the idea of resurrection and new life. Continue reading Resurrection Stories

Spring Grief

Springtime brings with it a sense of renewal and growth. But for those who have lost a loved one, it can also evoke a complex mix of emotions. Here at Foothill Funeral, nestled in the heart of Glendora, California, we understand the unique challenges of coping with spring grief. As the world awakens with vibrant colors and new life, it can feel like a stark contrast to the pain and sadness we may be experiencing. In times of grief, you may prefer the gloomy weather because it more closely matches your mood. However, amidst the juxtaposition of new life and death, it’s important to remember that you are not alone in your journey through grief. Continue reading Spring Grief

Religious Funerals

Religious funerals are popular. So, at Foothill Funeral, we understand the importance of honoring religious customs and traditions when planning a funeral or memorial service. Each religious faith and cultural tradition offers its own unique customs and rituals surrounding death and mourning, and it’s important to respect and uphold these traditions during the funeral process. Continue reading Religious Funerals

How to Make a Great Memorial Video

Creating a memorial video is a meaningful way to honor and celebrate the life of a loved one who has passed away. At Foothill Funeral, located in Glendora, California, we understand the importance of preserving memories and paying tribute to those we have lost. Here are some tips on how to make an awesome memorial video that beautifully captures the essence of your loved one’s life and legacy. Continue reading How to Make a Great Memorial Video

Happy National Funeral Director and Mortician’s Day

National Funeral Director and Mortician Recognition Day is March 11. This day serves as an opportunity to express our gratitude and appreciation. We salute the dedicated professionals serving our community with compassion, dignity, and respect during some of life’s most challenging moments. Continue reading Happy National Funeral Director and Mortician’s Day

How to Survive an Anniversary & Birthday After Someone Dies

A birthday and wedding anniversary or the anniversary of passings, and other post-death milestones evoke a whirlwind of emotions for surviving family members. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we understand the significance of these anniversaries and the challenges they may bring. It’s important to approach these occasions with sensitivity and compassion. Allow families to honor their loved ones while navigating their grief journey. Continue reading How to Survive an Anniversary & Birthday After Someone Dies

Valentine’s Day: How to Cope After a Death

Crumpled and torn red paper heart on a dark background, top view. Concept of broken heart Valentine’s Day can be a challenging time for those who have experienced the loss of a loved one. As a funeral home serving the Glendora, California community, we understand the unique struggles that individuals may face as they navigate this holiday while grieving the absence of someone dear to them. While Valentine’s Day is typically associated with expressions of love and affection, recognize that grief doesn’t take a holiday and that it is okay to feel a range of emotions during this time. Continue reading Valentine’s Day: How to Cope After a Death

Common Scams Targeting the Bereaved

Losing a loved one can leave you feeling vulnerable and more prone to fall for scams than you might otherwise be likely to believe. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we have had the privilege of serving our community during some of their most challenging times. It is our duty to not only provide compassionate and professional funeral services but also to protect our clients from potential scams that can prey on the bereaved when they are in a weakened start. In this blog post, we shed light on some common scams that target those grieving the loss of a loved one. Continue reading Common Scams Targeting the Bereaved

7 Grief Texts to Comfort Someone

Navigating the journey of grief can be incredibly challenging. And offering support to someone who is grieving is a thoughtful and comforting gesture. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we understand the importance of reaching out to those who are mourning. Sending simple, heartfelt grief texts can make a significant difference in their day. In this blog post, we want to share seven comforting text messages that can bring solace to someone who is grieving. Continue reading 7 Grief Texts to Comfort Someone

Creative Funeral Ideas

At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we appreciate that every individual is unique, and their life should be celebrated in a way that reflects their personality and passions. When it comes to arranging a funeral or memorial service, there are many creative ways to honor and remember your loved one. In this blog post, we explore some innovative funeral ideas that can help make the ceremony a truly special and meaningful experience.

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How Pre-Funding a Funeral Helps with Medi-Cal Approval

At Foothill Funeral, our mission is to provide compassionate and comprehensive funeral services to the Los Angeles Basin. We understand that planning for end-of-life expenses can be a daunting task, and we are here to support you every step of the way. In this blog post, we’ll discuss how pre-funding a funeral can assist you in qualifying for Medi-Cal, the state’s Medicaid program. Continue reading How Pre-Funding a Funeral Helps with Medi-Cal Approval

Death Documents

Preparing for the future is a topic many of us would rather not dwell on. However, it is a crucial aspect of ensuring that your wishes are respected when the time comes. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we offer guidance on the necessary documents to have in place before facing the inevitable. These documents can help alleviate stress for your loved ones during a difficult time. What’s more, it will ensure your loved ones properly carry out your wishes. Continue reading Death Documents

Funeral Trends for 2024

As we look ahead to 2024, we at Foothill Funeral are keenly aware of the evolving landscape of funeral services. The funeral industry continues to adapt to changing times, reflecting shifting preferences and needs. Here are some of the funeral trends we anticipate and embrace for the year 2024:

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Open Casket vs Closed Casket: That is the Question

Making decisions about a loved one’s final arrangements can be an emotional and challenging process. One significant decision that families often face is whether to have an open casket or a closed casket during the funeral service. This decision is deeply personal, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer. In this blog post, we explore the considerations surrounding open casket vs. closed casket funerals and touch on alternative options like cremation. Continue reading Open Casket vs Closed Casket: That is the Question

National Hospice Month

Join us in recognizing National Hospice Month, which is November. This special month honors the invaluable services provided by hospice care providers. What’s more, it celebrates the lives of those who have received compassionate end-of-life care. In this blog post, we would like to share our thoughts and sentiments as we commemorate National Hospice Month. Continue reading National Hospice Month

National Day of Mourning

At Foothill Funeral, we understand the profound impact that loss and grief can have on individuals and families. As a compassionate funeral home located in Glendora, California, we support our community through every aspect of their mourning journey. This includes recognizing and honoring the National Day of Mourning, which falls on the fourth Thursday of November each year. Continue reading National Day of Mourning

Memorial Services: Providing Closure and Honoring a Life

While some people say, “I don’t want a funeral service after I die,” this statement may not be fair to survivors. After all, losing a cherished family member or friend is an incredibly challenging experience. The pain and grief that follow can be overwhelming, and it’s during these times that memorial services take on a crucial role. They provide a space for healing, remembrance, and a sense of closure for those left behind.

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Euthanasia

At Foothill Funeral, located in the heart of Glendora, California, we understand the profound challenges and difficult decisions that families face when dealing with terminal illnesses. In this blog post, we will delve into the topic of euthanasia, its status under California law, and offer insights into supporting someone in their final stages of a fatal illness. Continue reading Euthanasia

Sudden Grief: 8 Ways to Cope

Profound sadness accompanies the sudden death of a loved one. We call this “Sudden Grief.” At Foothill Funeral, we are more than just a funeral service provider; we are a part of the community. And we have witnessed firsthand the challenges that families face when dealing with unexpected loss. Today, we want to share our insights and experiences on how to cope with the sudden death of a loved one, in the hopes that it may offer solace and guidance during these difficult times. Continue reading Sudden Grief: 8 Ways to Cope

Death & the Holidays

Dead employee working in the office in funny concept — Halloween is one holiday you may have to work through following the death of a loved one.

In this blog post, we cover an important topic relative to grief: death & the holidays. Discussing the topic of death during the holidays may seem unconventional. However, as the holiday season encroaches, we believe that these moments of reflection can offer solace and healing during a time when many are celebrating life, family, and tradition. Continue reading Death & the Holidays

Death & Halloween

Halloween and Death relate to each other. October 31st has long been associated with costumes, candy, and spooky decorations. So, it’s easy to reflect about how Halloween has evolved over the years. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, people perceive a subtle but significant change about death during this season. It seems that, over time, death disappeared from Halloween. And in its place, a beautiful tradition has emerged – the Day of the Dead. Halloween, once known as All Hallows’ Eve, was traditionally a time when people believed the boundary between the living and the dead was at its thinnest. It was a night to honor and remember loved ones who had passed away, and it was accompanied by rituals to connect with the spirit world. However, as time passed, Halloween in the United States became more commercialized and focused on costumes and candy, gradually distancing itself from its original purpose. Continue reading Death & Halloween

Scams Targeting the Bereaved

It's a scam text on yellow cover with magnifying glass. Scamming and fraud concept At Foothill Funeral, we understand that losing a loved one is one of life’s most challenging experiences. During such a vulnerable time, it’s crucial to be aware of the common scams that target the bereaved. Unfortunately, there are individuals who prey on people in mourning for financial gain. In this blog post, I’ll shed light on some of the most prevalent scams and offer advice on how to protect yourself and your loved ones during this difficult period. Continue reading Scams Targeting the Bereaved

Clergy or Celebrant: Funeral Officiant Choice

Planning a funeral service can be a challenging and emotional task. One of the crucial decisions you will need to make is selecting the right celebrant or clergy member to lead the service. We are here to offer guidance on this important aspect of planning a meaningful and personalized farewell for your loved one.

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Death Checklist: When a Loved One Dies

At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we understand the profound grief and overwhelming emotions that follow the loss of a loved one. During these difficult times, it’s crucial to have guidance on the practical steps that need to be taken to honor your loved one’s memory and manage their affairs. In this blog post, we offer a death checklist — suggestions for what to do after a loved one dies. Continue reading Death Checklist: When a Loved One Dies

Death Doulas

Lonely elderly senior woman in a wheelchair in nursing home looking out the window, Generative AI When it comes to end-of-life care, we understand the significance of providing our clients and their families with the utmost compassion and personalized support. One invaluable resource in this journey is the presence of a Death Doula. In this article, we’d like to delve into the profound role of a Death Doula, shedding light on what they do and how they contribute to ensuring a peaceful transition for your loved one. Continue reading Death Doulas

Scattering Ashes with Meaning

Illustration of abstract scatter black dots over white background At Foothill Funeral, we understand that saying goodbye to a loved one is never easy. Therefore, as a compassionate partner in your journey of remembrance, we’re here to help you navigate the process of honoring your loved one’s final wishes. One beautiful way to commemorate their life is by scattering their ashes in a meaningful and personalized manner. So, please join us as we explore ash scattering ideas that can provide solace and comfort during this emotional time. Continue reading Scattering Ashes with Meaning

How to Talk to Children About Death

how to talk to children about death As a funeral home nestled in the heart of Glendora, California, we understand the importance of addressing life’s complexities with care, especially when it involves discussing topics like death with children. As the back-to-school season approaches, we find it fitting to guide parents and guardians on how to approach conversations with children about death with grace and openness. Continue reading How to Talk to Children About Death

Crypts & Vaults: Alternate Final Options

When it comes to planning, many consider traditional burial or cremation, but there is a lesser-known option that’s both unique and dignified – the choice of a vault or crypt. We’re here to shed light on this option, the types of places that offer it, and the containers available for placement. Continue reading Crypts & Vaults: Alternate Final Options

Casket Selection

As a compassionate and understanding funeral home nestled in the heart of Glendora, California, we at Foothill Funeral know that choosing a casket can be a deeply emotional and significant decision. During such challenging times, it’s essential to approach this process with care and sensitivity. Today, we’re here to offer guidance on how to choose a casket that honors your loved one’s memory and reflects their unique personality. Continue reading Casket Selection

Bereaved Parents Month

At Foothill Funeral, we understand that life’s journey is filled with moments of joy and sorrow. As a compassionate funeral home, we support families through the toughest times of their lives. Thus, it is with a heavy heart that we acknowledge July as National Bereaved Parents’ Month. Losing a child is an experience no parent should ever have to endure. And yet, countless parents face this devastating reality every year. The pain of such a loss is incomprehensible, and it leaves a wound that never truly heals. This month, we come together as a community to offer solace. We also understand, and want to strengthen parents who carry the immense burden of grief.

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Mental Health Awareness Month

As we recognize National Mental Health Awareness Month, we want to emphasize the significance of prioritizing mental health and offering support to those affected by the tragic loss of a loved one to suicide. In this post, we share our insights, offering practical tips for suicide prevention and suggestions for coping with the profound grief that follows such a devastating event. Together, let us raise awareness, foster understanding, and facilitate healing during this important month. Continue reading Mental Health Awareness Month

Funeral Home History

Funeral home: The concept today is relatively recent. Throughout history, the responsibility of preparing the deceased for burial or cremation fell upon family and friends. However, in the 19th century, the emergence of specialized funeral homes transformed the way we commemorate and lay our loved ones to rest. Continue reading Funeral Home History

SoCal Cremation & Burial

Foothill Funeral, a compassionate funeral home located in Glendora, which is in Southern California. Today, we want to shed light on a topic that often arises when planning end-of-life services: the costs associated with SoCal cremation and burial. As experienced funeral professionals, we understand the importance of transparency and guidance during this sensitive time. So, let us provide you with insights into the pricing aspects of burial and cremation services in Southern California.

SoCal Cremation & Burial Services

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Morgue vs Funeral Home

When dealing with end-of-life matters, it is crucial to comprehend the differences between various facilities involved. Two terms that often arise are “morgue” and “funeral home.” At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we believe in equipping individuals with knowledge to make informed decisions during difficult times. In this blog post, we will shed light on the distinction between a morgue and a funeral home, fostering understanding and clarity.

The Purpose of a Morgue

A morgue, also known as a coroner’s office, facilitates temporary storage and examination of deceased individuals. Morgues play a vital role in the forensic and medical system, aiding in the determination of the cause of death through autopsies and ensuring the preservation of bodies during investigations. Operated by medical professionals, including pathologists and forensic experts, morgues are equipped with state-of-the-art facilities such as refrigeration units, autopsy rooms, and mortuary tables to handle bodies with utmost care. Our focus at Foothill Funeral, however, lies primarily on funeral services rather than forensic purposes. That said, we perform services such as embalming and further preparation of bodies before burial. Continue reading Morgue vs Funeral Home

Obituary: 10 Steps for Writing Well

As someone who has been entrusted with the important task of writing obituaries, we understand the immense responsibility and the desire to honor the lives of our loved ones in a truly meaningful way. Today, we would like to share some insights and tips on how to write an obituary that captures the essence of a person and pays a fitting tribute to their life. Continue reading Obituary: 10 Steps for Writing Well

Traditions

In times of loss, funeral homes serve as pillars of support, compassion, and comfort, providing essential assistance to those grieving the departure of a loved one. However, funeral homes offer much more than logistical aid; they play a profound role in honoring and commemorating the lives of the departed. Therefore, in this blog post, we delve into the importance of funeral traditions and rituals and how they can facilitate healing, closure, and a profound sense of connection for grieving families. Continue reading Traditions

Alzheimer’s

Coping with the Loss of a Loved One with Alzheimer’s

Alzheimer’s and Brain Awareness Month serves as a poignant reminder of the impact of dementia on individuals and their families. Coping with the loss of a loved one who had dementia can be a uniquely challenging experience, as grief may be intertwined with complex emotions and memories. At Foothill Funeral, we understand the importance of providing support during these difficult times. In this blog post, we explore strategies to help navigate grief when someone who had dementia passes away, offering solace and understanding during Alzheimer’s Awareness Month and beyond.

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Military Appreciation

As we celebrate Military Appreciation Month in May, we pause to remember the brave men and women who have served our country with honor and distinction. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we are deeply grateful for their sacrifice and commitment to our nation.

For military families, the sacrifices are countless. Military members leave behind their families to serve their country, often in perilous and life-threatening conditions. They miss out on important milestones such as the birth of their children, birthdays, and holidays. They endure long periods of separation from their loved ones and often return home with physical or emotional scars. Continue reading Military Appreciation

Go Green in Death

At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we are committed to helping families make informed choices about their end-of-life planning. As we recently celebrated Earth Day, we wanted to take a moment to discuss the importance of choosing environmentally friendly options for your final arrangements. In this post you’ll read about how to “go green.”

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Anniversary of a Death: 6 Ways to Survive

Losing a loved one is one of the most difficult experiences anyone can experience. And pain of grief can multiply near the anniversary of their death. The day can be a reminder of the pain and heartache that you experienced when they passed away. However, it is important to remember that you can survive the anniversary of their death. Here are some tips on how to cope: Continue reading Anniversary of a Death: 6 Ways to Survive

Funeral Etiquette

Funerals are events that come with a lot of emotions. And it is essential attendees understand and follow proper etiquette to show respect to the deceased and their loved ones. While it may seem like a somber occasion, a memorial service is an opportunity to offer support to those grieving and celebrate the life of the person who has died. In this blog post, we examine recommended funeral etiquette. Continue reading Funeral Etiquette

Children & Grief: 7 Ways to Help

Grief is a natural and necessary part of life, but it can be especially difficult for children to process. As parents and caregivers, it is our responsibility to help children understand and cope with the loss of a loved one. At Foothill Funeral in Glendora, California, we understand how important it is to provide support to families during this difficult time. Here are some tips on how to help children process grief:

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Eulogy

When a loved one dies, it can be a difficult and emotional time for family and friends. One of the most challenging tasks during this time is writing a eulogy. A eulogy is a speech given at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the life and honor the memory of the deceased. It is essential to write an effective eulogy that captures the spirit and essence of the person while providing comfort to those grieving. In this post, we will provide some tips on how to write an effective eulogy. Continue reading Eulogy

Death of a Spouse: Why wait one year to make a big decision?

Losing a spouse to death can be a devastating and life-altering experience. It can leave one feeling lost, alone, and overwhelmed with grief. During such a time, it is common for individuals to try to make major decisions or life changes as a way of regaining control and moving forward. However, many experts recommend that one wait for at least a year before making any significant decisions or moves after the loss of a spouse. Continue reading Death of a Spouse: Why wait one year to make a big decision?

Plan a Funeral: 8 Steps

Would you know how to plan a funeral? Planning a funeral can be a difficult and emotional experience, but it is an essential part of saying goodbye to someone special. Whether you are organizing the arrangements beforehand or need to make plans after a loved one has passed away, there are several steps you can take to ensure that the funeral is a fitting and respectful tribute to their life. Continue reading Plan a Funeral: 8 Steps

Donate Your Body to Science?

Death, an inevitable reality of life no one escapes. Once we die, people can utilize our bodies as a resource. One available option is to donate your body to science. By doing so, you contribute to the advancement of medical knowledge and research. Another is to donate organs to save lives. However, the decision to donate your body to science or to donate organs should be made only after careful consideration. In this blog post, we discuss. Continue reading Donate Your Body to Science?

Grief: What to Say (And What Not to Say)

Losing a loved one is one of the most difficult and emotionally trying experiences that we can go through. It can be challenging to know what to say to someone who has just lost a loved one, but it’s important to offer comfort and support during this difficult time. Here are some guidelines on what to say and what not to say to someone in grief, who recently lost someone who died.

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Valentine’s Grief

Greeting card companies start promoting Valentine’s Day in January. And that’s all well and good if you’re involved in a romantic relationship. But what if you recently lost the one you love to death? It’s difficult to celebrate any holiday without someone special by your side. But with Valentine’s Day, the hurt compounds. Is there a way to get through this time of year without your loved one? Yes! In this blog, we address the difficult topic of Valentine’s grief. Continue reading Valentine’s Grief

2023 After Death

It can be hard to start 2023 after someone you love dies. Many people find that they need a lot of time to grieve and adjust their lives to the new reality of life without their loved one. This time can overwhelm and lead to loneliness. But rest assured, you can take steps to support yourself as you move forward with your life.

2023: Give Yourself Time to Grieve

Grief is a process, not an event. It takes time to heal. Resist the urge to feel rushed into getting over it. You may need several weeks, months or even years before the pain subsides. Don’t compare your grief with someone else’s. Everyone processes loss differently. No accurate universal timeline exists for healing. Continue reading 2023 After Death

Christmas Grief

Holidays are a time for joy and celebration, a time to get together with family and friends. It’s also a time to be reflective about the past year and look forward to the new year ahead. For anyone who’s experienced the loss of a loved one during the holidays, however, this can be an incredibly difficult time. Here are some ways to recover from Christmas grief: Continue reading Christmas Grief

Mourning Gift Ideas

Mourning the loss of someone close to you can be difficult during this time of year. There are so many feelings and emotions that come with losing someone close to you, but there are also ways to celebrate their memory during this holiday season. Here are some gift ideas for people who are mourning: Continue reading Mourning Gift Ideas

We are thankful for you!

Since it’s the time of year to gather to celebrate Thanksgiving with family and friends, we wanted to take the opportunity to express our gratitude to you! At Foothill Funeral & Cremation Services (FFC), we have a lot to be thankful for. 2022 was an outstanding first year of business for us – filled with innovation, growth and community support:

We are thankful to the city of Azusa, where owner/operators Manny Godoy and Rocky Bautista and our family lived for many years before recently relocating to Covina.
We are thankful to the city of Glendora, where our showroom is located on Grand Avenue. Glendora is a great community for small business. And we are blessed to hang our hats in the Pride of the Foothills.
We are thankful for Covina, where we have recently relocated our home and have joined with Sacred Heart Chapel, to offer clients a great place to host a funeral ceremony or remembrance.
We are thankful for our staff, who help make us look good, working with the community and families in a caring yet efficient manner.
We are thankful for the opportunity to work with families during their time of need. We consider ourselves blessed to use experience to help families.
We are thankful for veterans. As we discussed in last week’s post, we offer special veteran’s services because we are so thankful for the sacrifices that service men and women and their loved ones make on behalf of our country.
We are thankful for pets. As the only funeral home in Southern California to offer services for people as well as pets, we often get to appreciate the unique relationships people have with their four-legged friends. Our own dog, Lola, is a bereavement pug who works with us in our office and helps people who are experiencing grief. Come by our showroom to meet Lola.
We are thankful for digital technology, which enables us to offer online tributes and honor individual client communication preferences, so people can contact us via text, email, on the phone or in person.

We are thankful to be alive at a time when advances in cremation processes offer the potential for bio-cremation, which is an exciting alternative to traditional cremation.
We are thankful for new attitudes, which enable people to remember their loved ones in whatever way they feel most comfortable, be it traditional, liturgical religious ceremonies or life celebrations with creative themes and personalized music.
We are thankful for eco-friendly options, which offer mourners the chance to say goodbye to loved ones in a way that protects the future of the earth. As parents, that is something we value.
We are thankful for the plethora of resources available to help people who are grieving. This type of assistance was not always available. So, we count ourselves privileged to be able to point clients to places that offer help.
We are thankful for you! Happy Thanksgiving Day, from all of us at Foothill Funeral & Cremation.

About Foothill Funeral & Cremation Services

Funeral directing is a unique job. The reason we enjoy it is because we love helping families during their time of need. Drop by our Glendora showroom any time. In Covina, our relationship with Sacred Heart Chapel is the perfect place for mourners to host funerals and memorial services in a grandiose yet intimate setting. We proudly serve the San Gabriel Valley, San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles Basin, Orange County and the Inland Empire. Working in the mortuary industry since 1996, we have worked hard to build a reputation of quality, sincerity and trust. Please allow us to help you at your time of need or in the future. Call today (626) 335-0615 or drop by our showroom.

Holiday Grief

Grief is hard to endure at any time, but it seems to be worse during the holiday season. Though accepting a loss becomes easier with time, it’s something that never completely goes away. There is no “pause” button for grief, but you can alleviate some of the feelings you may be experiencing. If you or someone you know is struggling with grief this holiday season, here are some tips to help you get through this painful time.

Coping with Holiday Grief

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How to Plan a Funeral

If someone you love dies, you may face the difficult task of planning their funeral. This can be a challenging process to handle alone. But don’t worry. We are here to help guide you through it. In this blog post, we will walk you through how to plan a funeral, from choosing the venue to picking out the perfect outfit for the day of the memorial. Continue reading How to Plan a Funeral

Grief Gifts

Death is tough. And processing grief is difficult. So, when someone you love loses a loved one, you may not immediately know the best way to offer support in their time of need. However, one simple gesture may make all the difference. Consider giving them a gift to show you care. Here are some examples of the best gifts for someone who is grieving. Continue reading Grief Gifts

Day of the Dead/Dia del Los Muertos

A popular form of Halloween décor in Mexico, as well as in parts of the United States, includes colorful skulls (Calaveras), associated with the Day of the Dead. Translated Dia de Los Muertos, the holiday coincides with Halloween because they both are celebrated around the same time each year. Also, each event honors people who have died. Halloween concentrates on a lighthearted celebration of friendly ghosts, humorous ghouls, and friendly witches. However, Dia de Los Muertos invites family members and friends who died to return one day each year. They come back to commune with their loved ones still alive. Continue reading Day of the Dead/Dia del Los Muertos

Death Doula

Death doulas, also known as end-of-life doulas provide non-medical guidance and support for people approaching death and for their families. A relatively new concept in modern America, a doula helps clients make practical to-do lists and help them check it off. Though the term is relatively unknown, the role is common and has storied roots. In the United States, people are familiar with the term doula, but mostly related to birth. This is unfortunate, since death doulas can serve an invaluable role in the communicates between clients, families, friends, medical professionals, and hospice staff.

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Cremation

Cremation is an increasingly popular method of body disposal. A more affordable alternative to other forms of disposal, the process reduces the amount of space and environmental impact needed for burial. Cremation also allows families to honor their loved ones in a meaningful way.

Eco-Friendly Option

Per body, cremation produces between 200-500 pounds of carbon dioxide equivalent (CO2e) emissions. Emissions offset in about two to three months. This green option appeals to people concerned about the environment. On the other hand, a body which has been buried will take more than 50 years to decompose. After this period, all that will remain are mummified skin and tendons. The lengthy process involves more than 200 human bones. Also, the body contains a few trillion microbes, and as many as 37 trillion cells. Continue reading Cremation