Understanding the Rhythms of Mourning
Grief doesn’t follow a straight line. It doesn’t start strong and then gradually fade away like a wound healing in a predictable way. Instead, grief often feels like the ocean—powerful, unpredictable, and full of sudden swells. It arrives in waves…waves of grief.
At Foothill Funeral & Cremation, we’ve walked alongside many families in Glendora and the surrounding communities as they navigate the complexities of mourning. One of the most important truths we’ve learned—and often remind others of—is that grief doesn’t go away in a neat, orderly fashion. It returns, recedes, and sometimes hits just as hard months or even years after a funeral or memorial. Understanding this rhythm can help you cope when your own waves of grief arrive.
Memorial Day is a time when communities across the country pause to remember those who gave their lives in military service. For families who have lost a loved one in uniform—or who simply want to honor the memory of a veteran—this national day of reflection can be deeply personal. While barbecues and parades are common for a Memorial Day funeral, the heart of the holiday is remembrance.
When someone you love dies, the immediate wave of emotions can be overwhelming. Grief, shock, confusion—and yet, at the same time, you’re faced with decisions that must be made quickly. One of the first, and most important, is how to handle the physical remains of your loved one. This decision is known as choosing a disposition.
Grieving When the Day Feels Different: Mother’s Day Grief
When someone we love dies, everything changes. Grief arrives uninvited, often overwhelming and unpredictable. During such a difficult time, the question often comes up: “Do we really need to have a funeral?” Sometimes, people leave behind wishes for funerals, thinking they’re saving their loved ones from a burden. But what many don’t realize is that a funeral is not just a tradition—it’s an essential part of the healing process for those left behind.