Funeral Traditions Around the World

funeral traditionsFunerals Around the World

Living in Southern California, it’s easy to start to start to think that local traditions are universal. While some people who live in other states and countries share our traditions, not all do. A host of unique traditions exist relative to the way people around the world honor the dead.

New Orleans Funeral Traditions

When someone in New Orleans, Louisiana dies, boisterous jazz musicians dressed in colorful garb parade down city streets. The tradition blends those in Africa and France, this joyful while simultaneously sorrowful dance of joy and grief comforts mourners who follow a veritable marching band. Typically, the band begins with a sorrowful dirge and then shifts to a more upbeat tone after mourners bury the body. Commonly observed in the city center, not every Louisianan mourns in this manner.funeral traditions New Orleans

Funerals in Mongolia & Tibet

funeral tradition tibetIn the Buddhist tradition, people in Mongolia and Tibet share the belief that spirits transmigrate after death. That is, their souls move on while the body becomes an empty vessel. To aid in their loved ones’ return to the earth, mourners chop the bodies of loved ones into pieces and place them on a mountaintop to expose the shell to the elements, including vultures. As barbaric as this sounds, 80 percent of Tibetans chose to observe the practice, often referred to as a Sky Burial.

Traditions for Funerals in The PhilippinesTree Trunk Burial Philippines

With different traditions celebrated in various parts of the country, the Benguet of Northwestern Philippines blindfold their dead and place them next to the main entrance of the houses. Their Tinguian neighbors dress bodies in their best clothes, seating them on a chair and placing a lit cigarette in their lips. The Caviteño, who live near Manila, bury their dead in a hollowed-out tree trunk. When someone falls ill, they select their entombment tree. Meanwhile, the Apayo, who live in the north, bury their dead under the kitchen.

South Korea Funeral & Burial Traditions

South Korea Funeral TraditionsDue to limited space for burial in South Korea, funeral directors have creatively come up with a way to dispose of the deceased. In many cases, Korean cremate and press deceased bodies into jewelry-like beads. The colorful beads, stored in a jar, take up little room.

Bali Burials

The New York Times reports that Balinese cremation ceremonies are where the Balinese “have their greatest fun,” In 2008, the island saw one of its most lavish cremations ever as the head of the royal family was burned along with 68 commoners. Thousands of volunteers gathered to carry a giant bamboo platform, an enormous wooden bull and a wooden dragon. After a long procession, the leader’s body was eventually placed inside the bull and burned as a dragon stood witness. In the Balinese tradition, cremation releases the soul. This frees it to inhabit a new body — and is considered a sacred duty. 

Funerals in Glendora, Covina, and Azusa, California

Our cooperative effort with Sacred Heart Chapel in Covina and Azusa roots tie us to the community. We work out of our showroom/office location in Glendora. Planning a variety of funeral, burial and cremation ceremonies, we serve the San Gabriel Valley, Inland Empire, LA Basin and beyond. Helping families honor their loved ones in unique ways, we love helping celebrate unique lives. For example, we have officiated at funerals with themes as varied as sports, treasured keepsakes, game-playing, theatrical, ocean-centered, star-focused, and many more! In 2017 and beyond, we can help you plan absolutely any type of ceremony you want. The sky’s the limit!

About Foothill Funeral & Cremation Services

Funeral directing is a unique job. The reason we enjoy it is because we love helping families during their time of need. Drop by our Glendora showroom any time. In Covina, our relationship with Sacred Heart Chapel is the perfect place for mourners to host funerals and memorial services in a grandiose yet intimate setting. We proudly serve the San Gabriel Valley, San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles Basin, Orange County and the Inland Empire. Working in the mortuary industry since 1996, we have worked hard to build a reputation of quality, sincerity and trust. Please allow us to help you at your time of need or in the future. Call today (626) 335-0615 or drop by our showroom.

What You Should Absolutely, Positively Never Say at a Funeral

In the funeral industry since 1996, we have heard it all – the good, the bad and the ugly. Most funeral attendees have good intentions. But, sometimes, people let their fear of silence lead them to blurt comments that might be better left unsaid. We know you mean well. So, please let us help you by cautioning against socially unacceptable funeral-service banter.

What Not to Say

Never say: “I know how you feel.” 

You might have recently lost someone you love, but it is presumptuous to think that everyone handles grief in the same manner. Grief is as unique as the people who experience it. So, avoid the temptation to relate to the mourner. Instead of declaring your own emotions, offer to make yourself available to listen. They might end up asking you about your own experience, at which time you can share the way your own loss made you feel. But wait for the invitation. And, in the meantime, feel free to tell them you aren’t sure exactly what to say, but that you are sorry for their loss.


Never say: “He/she is better off.”

If the decedent was sick prior to death, you may be right about death being preferable to suffering. But don’t go there, because that isn’t your call. In many cases, grievers don’t want to consider the fact that their loved one is better off outside of their presence. Also, the statement begs the question about the afterlife, which can be a controversial topic to address while in a receiving line. Better to smile and offer a hug.


Never say: “At least he/she lived a full life.”

This assumes that all elderly deceased were happy and healthy throughout most of their lives. But dying at a ripe old age doesn’t necessarily guarantee that the life that proceeded death was full. Instead of making sweeping generalizations, keep your condolences directed to the person in grief. Make sure they know you care and that you are sorry for what they are experiencing. It isn’t your responsibility to make sure they feel good about the timing of their loved one’s death.


Never say: “He/she looks great.”

Making comments about appearance while looking at a dead person emphasizes the fact he or she is not alive. Not that you are trying to hide that fact from the family; but realize that immediate family members may not like the way their loved one appears lying in state. You would be better off entirely refraining from making comments about the deceased’s appearance. An exception to this is if you are asked your opinion during the viewing.


Never say: “Don’t cry” or “Why aren’t you crying?”

It isn’t your job to evaluate the way someone is handling his or her loved one’s death. People experience grief in similar stages but at very different paces. What’s more, shy, introverted, mourners will react differently than their outgoing, extraverted counterparts, who may more readily express emotion. The bottom line is that the exhibition of grief is a very personal matter. Instead of telling the bereaved what to do, you are better off reaching out your hand.


About Foothill Funeral & Cremation Services

Funeral directing is a unique job. The reason we enjoy it is because we love helping families during their time of need. Drop by our Glendora showroom any time. In Covina, our relationship with Sacred Heart Chapel is the perfect place for mourners to host funerals and memorial services in a grandiose yet intimate setting. We proudly serve the San Gabriel Valley, San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles Basin, Orange County and the Inland Empire. Working in the mortuary industry since 1996, we have worked hard to build a reputation of quality, sincerity and trust. We would be honored to help you at your time of need or in the future. Call today (626) 335-0615 or drop by our showroom.

West Nile Virus Claims Six Lives in California This Year

Local West Nile Victims

Carried by mosquitos and birds, West Nile Virus is a dangerous infection. It can claim the lives of anyone who has a weak immune system, such as the elderly and children. Unfortunately, there is no vaccine to protect against it. August and September are the busiest months for the disease. Already this year, at least six people have died in California due to West Nile Virus. At Foothill Funeral & Cremation Service, in the last two weeks alone, we have worked with three such families. One was an Arcadia resident, another was from Azusa, and the third, lived in West Covina.

Symptoms of West Nile

  • Most people are asymptomatic. Seventy to eighty percent of people who become infected with West Nile virus do not develop any symptoms.
  • Fever StrikesAbout one in five people who are infected will develop a fever with other symptoms such as headache, body aches, joint pains, vomiting, diarrhea, or rash. Most people with this type of West Nile virus disease recover completely, but fatigue and weakness can last for weeks or months.
  • Severe symptoms in a few. Less than one percent of people infected with West Nile Virus will develop a serious neurologic illness such as encephalitis or meningitis (inflammation of the brain or surrounding tissues). The symptoms of neurologic illness can include headache, high fever, neck stiffness, disorientation, coma, tremors, seizures, or paralysis.
  • Recovery from severe disease may take several weeks or months. Some of the neurologic effects may be permanent. About 10 percent of people who develop neurologic infection due to West Nile virus will die.

Our hearts go out to families across Southern California who have been impacted by this illness. And, as a service to our clients and friends, we want to offer some tips to help keep you and your family safe.

How to reduce incidences of West Nile

The most effective way to avoid West Nile virus disease is to prevent mosquito bites.

  • Use insect repellents when you go outdoors. Look for repellents that contain DEET, picaridin, IR3535, oil of lemon eucalyptus and para-methane-diol, which provide long-lasting protection.
  • Wear long sleeves and pants from dusk through dawn when many mosquitoes are most active.
  • Install or repair screens on windows and doors. If you have it, use your air conditioning.
  • Reduce the number of mosquitoes around your home by emptying standing water from containers like flowerpots, gutters, buckets, pool covers, pet water dishes, discarded tires, and birdbaths.

If, despite your best efforts, you suspect you might have West Nile, immediately schedule an appointment with your doctor or head to the Emergency Room.

About Foothill Funeral & Cremation

We would love to help you at your time of need or in the future. Drop by our Glendora showroom any time. In Covina, our relationship with Sacred Heart Chapel is the perfect place for mourners to host funerals and memorial services in a grandiose yet intimate setting. We proudly serve the San Gabriel Valley, San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles Basin, Orange County and the Inland Empire. Working in the mortuary industry since 1996, we have worked hard to build a reputation of quality, sincerity and trust. We would love to help you at your time of need or in the future. Call today (626) 335-0615 or drop by our showroom.

Millennials & Funerals

Millennials on Scene

While much has been made about the fact that Baby Boomers are starting to enter their Golden Years, another group is growing at an even faster clip – Millennials. In fact, by 2025, three out of four workers globally will be Millennials. What’s more, as their parents and grandparents age, this age group is the one most likely to choose caskets and urns and plan services. And that is changing the face of the funeral profession.

How Millennials Impact the Funeral Industry

  • They set trends. In California, seven out of ten people choose cremation over more traditional forms of handling the deceased. Millennials pride themselves on being the first to try anything new. At Foothill Funeral & Cremation Service, we remain on the cutting edge of every viable industry trend.
  • They are fully vested in digital platforms. Millennials make decisions based on the information they locate online. The first generation to have access to technology their entire lives, Millennials inherently understand how to cut through the clutter.
  • They are educated. In fact, they are the most educated generation in American history. More than 63% have bachelor’s degrees. And they use their education to inform their decisions. This is one of the reasons that eco-friendly burial options are gaining in popularity. They intrinsically understand the importance of making responsible choices.
  • They question everything. So, while other families might default to former family choices, they tend to investigate everything before deciding. This is good news for business owners like us, because we don’t rest on our laurels. Instead, we make sure we stay on top of industry trends.
  • They stay on trend. Committed to trying new things rather than relying on staid traditions, Millennials research everything. We are glad about this, because we work hard to earn our clients’ business. An example of this is our plans to be the first mortuary in California to offer Bio-Cremation.
  • They collaborate. We do, too. When we work with families to plan life celebrations and funerals, we make sure to honor their thoughts and wishes. That’s why Foothill Funeral & Cremation Services is flexible. We are proud to offer services in virtually every conceivable style instead of cookie-cutter ceremonies.
  • They grieve. Like people from every other generation, Millennials grieve at the loss of someone they love. Working in the mortuary industry since 1996, we understand loss. And we count it a privilege to help families through the grieving process. So, whatever your generation, give us a call (626) 335-0615.

About Foothill Funeral & Cremation

Whenever you were born, we would love to help you at your time of need or in the future. Drop by our Glendora showroom any time. In Covina, our relationship with Sacred Heart Chapel is the perfect place for mourners to host funerals and memorial services in a grandiose yet intimate setting. We proudly serve the San Gabriel Valley, San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles Basin, Orange County and the Inland Empire. Working in the mortuary industry since 1996, we have worked hard to build a reputation of quality, sincerity and trust. We would be honored to help you at your time of need or in the future. Call today (626) 335-0615 or drop by our showroom.

How to Celebrate a Life Well Lived

Before the Celebration

After processing the devastation of losing someone you love, you’ll face a massive “to do” list. You’ll contend with seemingly endless tasks even as you grieve:

  • Calls to family and friends
  • Meetings with clergy
  • Busy-work appointments to make decisions about everything from cremation or burial
  • Decisions about which type of casket or urn

You may find it difficult to focus on what really matters when someone dies — preparing a service to celebrate their life. To help, allow us to share what we’ve learned during our years in the mortuary business. 

Celebrations Should Be All About Relationship

The cornerstones to healing after loss are to honor the achievements of your loved one and celebrate the life you shared. Because you valued the relationship, the memorial should celebrate that bond. IT should also honor the unique individual you have lost.

A few ideas to help you create a fitting and memorable event:

Celebrate with Tribute Videos

In the not-too-distant past, expensive, complicated videotaping equipment kept most families from producing video tributes. Today, however, anyone who has a smartphone can create a fitting tribute.

Affordable video-editing software:

  • iMovie (iOS)
  • Vine (Android/iOS)
  • FxGuru: Movie FX Director (Android/iOS)
  • PowerDirector Mobile (Android)
  • Minecraft Stop-Motion Movie Creator (Android/iOS)
  • FiLMiC Pro (Android/iOS)
  • Splash (iOS)
  • Dubsmash (Android/iOS)

These apps walk users through the way to blend family photographs with attractive graphic images and soundtracks. Using them, you can create an elegantly emotive cinematic video, which will enhance any funeral or memorial service. After the ceremony, the video is sure to become a treasured family keepsake.  At Foothill Funeral & Cremation, we do video tributes for clients in-house and can make copies for family and friends.

Personalized Printing for Life Celebrations

At Foothill Funeral & Cremation, Our Life Tributes include memorial bookmarks, service programs, prayer cards, and folders. All of these include a favorite photo, poem or prose tribute to your loved one. Through Life Tributes, we can add a personalized element to your service, which guests can take home, as a treasured keepsake. It’s tradition…with a twist.


Memorial Websites

The Internet has all but eliminated the need for newspaper obituaries. Thus, most mourners prefer to honor their loved ones on a memorial website. Foothill Funereal & Cremation has taken this concept one step further. Our sites connect family and friends as they virtually gather to honor loved ones lost…no matter geographical location. These tributes celebrate connections, honor a life, and provide a record which can be accessed on difficult days — long after the frenzy of funeral activity has passed.

Celebrating Life

You knew your loved one better than anyone else. And we have years of experience. Together, we can design the perfect memorial or funeral service. If you’re ready to discuss the options or have questions, please call us at (626) 335-0615, or send an email inquiry.

About Foothill Funeral & Cremation

Named San Gabriel Valley “Reader’s Choice” for 2017, Foothill Funeral & Cremation Services has a beautiful showroom and offices located at 402 West Baseline in Glendora. We proudly serve the San Gabriel Valley, San Fernando Valley, Los Angeles Basin, Orange County and the Inland Empire. Over the years, we have worked hard to build a reputation of quality, sincerity and trust. We would be honored to help you at your time of need or in the future. Call today (626) 335-0615 or drop by our showroom.